"How to Be Cocky and Funny With Women"

Women love a bit of cockiness in a man, but how much is too
much? What is the perfect combination of cocky funny to use?
An important audio message from Dan, Founder of The Modern Man


When I first discovered the cocky funny approach, I thought it was the 'magic bullet' for success with women & dating.

I hoped that if I said a few cocky and funny lines to women, then ALL of my problems with women would be fixed.

The reality is that being cocky and funny is an amazing way of getting a woman attracted & interested in you right away. It's also a great way of maintaining a woman's interest.

However, to experience it's full power and get the rewards you want (beautiful women), you really need to understand how to use it in combination with a number of other techniques I have discovered, which I will share with you over the next 4 pages.

To tell you who I am and why you should listen to me:

My name is Dan Bacon and I started using the cocky funny approach 5 years ago. I went from being crap with women (couldn't get laid to save my life!) to having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be with me.

For the last 3 years since starting The Modern Man, I have been teaching guys how to meet women using cocky and funny (and 100's of other techniques) in bar environments – during live, weekend courses.

I know more about cocky and funny than most people on this planet, so let's just say that you've managed to find the right article!

Here's what you're about to begin learning from me right now:
  • How to achieve the right balance between cocky and funny.
  • How to avoid 'crossing the line', or going too far with it.
  • When it's not appropriate to use cocky and funny.
  • An example of cocky and funny, including what to say (page 2.)
  • Audio examples of me explaining how to use cocky and funny, plus giving you free examples.
So, firstly – the right balance that you need to achieve between cocky and funny is not so much "Use a certain percentage of cocky and a certain percentage of funny".

The right balance is simply in understanding that you need to be playfully cocky, rather than arrogantly cocky.

Approaching it that way will ensure that you always achieve the right balance and avoid crossing the line, or going too far.

When I discovered that simple adjustment, I also began to realize that cocky and funny was not about making women feel bad about themselves, or bringing them down in any way (as I'd been led to believe by other, inexperienced guys online).

It's about making women feel the highly-desirable emotions associated with sexual tension and desire. In other words, getting women to see you as someone they'd like to have sex with.

Used right, cocky and funny will also attract women by demonstrating a lot of the important traits that women look for in a guy, such as: Confidence, Humour and 'Social Coolness'.

Next, let's move on to understanding when it's not appropriate to use cocky and funny.

In the early days, when I was inexperienced at using the cocky funny approach, I once took it too far in an work environment.

I was working in a corporate office and crossed the line by replying to a female colleague's e-mail in an overly cocky way (which I thought was cocky and funny at the time!).

She immediately forwarded the e-mail to my manager and 15 minutes later, he tapped me on the shoulder and asked to speak to me. I got into a bit of trouble that day and it really annoyed me, because I didn't know what I was doing wrong with the whole cocky funny approach.

After 5 years of experience, I now know that if you can be playfully cocky, rather than arrogantly cocky – it will pretty much always achieve the desired effect for you.

There are times when you need to be serious, and of course – during those times it's sometimes not appropriate.

There are also times when you need to tone it down, like when you're starting to get to know a woman and connect with her. If you keep being cocky and funny during serious moments, she will eventually get frustrated or see you as a bit of a clown.

Now, before we get into some more juicy stuff on the next page (including a cocky and funny example) – I want to point out that on page 4, you can LISTEN to examples of me using cocky and funny.


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