Conversation Starters

"What to Say to Start a Conversation, Then Keep it Going & Keep it Interesting..."
An important audio message from Dan, Founder of The Modern Man


So, you want some conversation starters?

When it comes to approaching and meeting women in bars, coffee shops, shopping malls and so on - conversation starters can be one of the hardest things to come up with.

You only have a few seconds to act when you see her. Yet, you are stuck thinking, "What do I say? How can I get her interested in talking to me right away?"

The most common reasons for guys not startng conversations with women are
  1. Not knowing how to start a conversation (i.e. what to say).
  2. Fear of rejection.
Let's start off with the 'fear of rejection' when starting a conversation with a woman. You may be thinking that if you walk over and start a conversation:
  • She might laugh at you.
  • She might ignore you.
  • You might feel humiliated in front of others if she turns you down.
I used to think the same way and (needless to say), I'd become completely immobilized by fear the moment I saw a woman that I wanted to start a conversation with.

That was a VERY frustrating time of my life.

I also used to think that I had to say something unique and original…something the woman had never heard before.

I now know that's not actually the case.

You don't have to come up with a fantastical line that blows the socks of her cute, little feet. Yet, back when I was hopeless with women – I didn't know that.

I used to get nervous when I wanted to start a conversation with a woman, because I'd be thinking things like, "Well, if I do manage to start a conversation…what the hell do I say after that?? What if it just turns into one of those awkward moments, where there is just me, here and a whole lot of silence?!"

I didn't want to ever have to experience that in a real life situation with other people around. I just wanted to know what to say and do so it WORKED the first time.

Fast forward to today…

How things are different now is that I actually know how to confidently approach a woman, start a conversation and have her become interested in me right away.

In fact, it's not uncommon for me to go out during the day or night and come home with the phone numbers of 3-4 attractive, interesting women.

Over the next few pages, I'm not only going to give you a killer conversation starter to use during the day (plus give you access to HEAPS that you can use at night in bars)...

I'm also going to share the techniques that I used to go from not having any women in my life, to literally having a 'waiting list' of women wanting to be my girlfriend.


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