How to Approach Women: Get Sex, Love and Relationships Now
How to Approach Women the Right Way – What Most Guys End Up Doing Wrong!Without knowing how to approach women, you'll miss out on great opportunities to find a girlfriend and enjoy sexual, loving relationships.
Here's how to approach women in a natural, non-sleazy way that will get you results now, not next year.
Want to know how to approach women?
I want you to try a little exercise next time you are out.
The next time you see a cute girl, walk up to her and say,
"Hi, *pause 2 seconds* Are you friendly? If she says
"Yes", then ask "Should I get to know you?"
If she says "Yes" again then ask her "Why?"
The idea is to make her list all the reasons why she is
someone that you should meet and get to know better.
For all the ones that give you the wrong answers (snob you),
skip them, they are no good for our experiment anyway.
Say "Thanks, pleasure meeting you" and move on.
The idea behind this experiment is to give you some balls
of steel so you can get used to approaching and talking to
women in any situation not just clubs or bars.
If you can do our little experiment, then you will see that
approaching and talking to women is not that scary after all.
You will become a pro and will know how to approach
women!
In fact, most women out there are quiet eager to meet and
talk to men. Every time you approach a woman, even if she
does not respond as well as you would have hoped, she feels
happy and satisfied that men do want to talk to her.
What I am also trying to communicate to you is that when
it comes to approaching women, you should not even think
about the word "confidence". Approaching women should be
your secondary nature. In other words, when you see an
attractive woman, you should have the courage to come up to
her and start a conversation.
You shouldn't think "To approach her I need to be confident"
... you JUST do it!!!
1. They hesitate and they let her notice that they are hesitating.
Almost every guy does this at one time or another and most don’t even realize what kind of an effect this can have. When you kind of lay back and hesitate and she notices, you are already giving off the signal that you are nervous or thinking too much about walking up to her. It might not seem like a big deal to you, but it does kind of take you down a notch, because it seems like you are maybe a little unconfident in yourself.
2. They approach her like they are trying to pick her up.
Some guys will disagree with this, but in my experience, women do not want to be picked up. They want to meet a guy, but they do not want to be picked up in the sense that they end up being just a conquest for the night. Do you think that she spends an hour or more getting ready just so some dude in a bar can end up with her at the end of the night? Not really, she spends that time getting ready to go out with the hopes that she meets a guy who is fun to be around, confident in himself, and can make her forget about things. If things get physical or intimate at the end of the night, it’s just a natural progression.
3. They don’t have nothing to say beyond the opener.
Coming up with an opener, a way to start the conversation can be tough, but even when a guy has that part of the approach down, he usually does not have much after that. The opener is to get things started, it’s not the whole thing. You need to be able to go beyond just using an opening line, and transition into some kind of conversation or interaction that builds attraction with her.
Next time you see a cute girl who you would like to approach,
think of how much better her life will get if you come into it.
Imagine how much happier she will get if you start going out
with her. You must truly believe that in order to be able to get
women attracted to you. If you think of yourself as a loser or
a creep then there are deeper issues that we need to work with
together in order to help you in the long term.
You should contact me directly and we can work through it.
