Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?Women claim that they want a nice guy as a boyfriend. But instead they are attracted to bad boys, jerks or sleazy guys?
How often do you hear people say "nice guys
finish last"? You may say it everyday because
obviously you are a nice guy and there is nothing
wrong with being one.
So why do nice guys completely fail to attract women both inside the bedroom and outside?
Why do women reject nice guys and tend to date jerks?
How can you stop being a nice guy and become a man who women find attractive?
I will answer these questions for you.
What you need to understand is that "nice guys" are not necessarily NICE at all.
In fact, most nice guys are manipulative and needy by nature. Being nice is a great character trait and there's nothing wrong with being a nice person (man or a woman).
Many guys think that it's the actual NICENESS that women dislike, wrong!
Nice guys hide their true feelings and male urges from women to the point where they make up all weird and random excuses just to spend time with women. While at the same time, nice guys never move things further sexually and relationship wise. They wait for the woman to lead them.
Nice guys finish last because they act like a male FRIEND of a woman that they like, they do not act like a man who is genuinely interested in dating that woman.
Nice guys are very needy, they crave attention but they go about getting it the wrong way. They will drive a woman to a concert and expect her to kiss them after dropping her off, which is actually not nice at all.
A normal guy will drive a woman to a concert, have a great time with her dancing and partying then he will try and kiss her right then and there, not wait until the end of the night for her to kiss him.
The "jerks" or "bad boys" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.
Why nice guys finish last, the reasons:
1. Nice guys are very needy and possessive
2. Expect the girl to do everything for them
3. Doing everything for women in hopes of one day getting laid
4. Spiteful, thinks all women are no good
5. Becomes obsessed over ONE particular woman even when he is not dating her
How to stop being a nice guy and start attracting women the right way:
1. Have the balls to say "No" when people are asking you for unreasonable favours or something that you do not wish to do
2. Enjoy living your life by having interesting hobbies and leading an active lifestyle. If you sit on your computer all day, start doing gym and get out there, go walk your dog once a day
3. Stop putting all women on a pedestal. Women are normal human beings just like you and I. The way I treat people in general is if they are being nice to me then I will return the favour. If she is being a bitch then I will treat her accordingly
4. You don't need women to survive. You need food and water but not women. In the end, you need to lose the NEEDINESS, not the niceness!